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Wanting to take revenge is a very human emotion -- instinctual, even.
想要報復，是一種人類非常自然的情緒--甚至，是一種本能。
And all I wanted to do for years was to hurt Tom back as deeply as he had hurt me.
這么多年，我最想做的，就是深深地傷害Tom，像他曾傷害我那樣。
But had I not found a way out of the hatred and anger, I'm not sure I'd be standing here today.
但是，如果我未曾從由此而生的怨恨和憤怒中解脫，我不確信我今天能夠站在這里。
That isn't to say that I didn't have my doubts along the way.
那不是說，這一路上我不曾有過疑慮。
When the plane bounced on that landing strip in Cape Town,
當飛機降落，顛簸在開普敦的著陸帶上時，
I remember thinking, "Why did I not just get myself a therapist and a bottle of vodka like a normal person would do?"
我記得我在想，“為什么我不像一個正常人會做的那樣找一個按摩師，再買一瓶伏特加？”
At times, our search for understanding in Cape Town felt like an impossible quest,
有時，我們在開普敦尋求彼此理解這件事，像是一個不可能的探索，
and all I wanted to do was to give up and go home to my loving husband, Vidir, and our son.
而我只想放棄，回到我親愛的丈夫Vidir和我們的兒子身邊。
But despite our difficulties, this journey did result in a victorious feeling that light had triumphed over darkness,
盡管存在困難，但這趟旅程的確帶來了一種勝利的感受，像是光亮戰(zhàn)勝了黑暗，
that something constructive could be built out of the ruins.
廢墟之中得以建立一些益處。
