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we'll talk about that during the week on goals.
我們將在探討"目標"時談到
Also because they form better relationships.
還因為他們建立更好的人際關(guān)系
They are more open and generous.
他們更開放更寬容
And they are more creative.
他們的創(chuàng)造力更強
All these components ultimately lead to higher levels of success.
所有這些因素最終導(dǎo)致更高層次的成功
Positive emotions not only contribute to our success,
積極情緒不僅有助成功
they don't just contribute to our feeling good,
不僅能讓我們感覺好
they also contribute to our wellbeing.
還有助我們獲得幸福
Optimistic people, and again, not Pollyannaish detached optimism, but grounded optimists, on average, live significantly longer.
樂觀的人不是指盲目的樂天派而是腳踏實地的樂觀主義者平均而言，明顯更加長壽
Bless you. The immune system is stronger, so it also helps in terms of physical health.
保佑你們。免疫系統(tǒng)更強所以對身體健康也有幫助
But now the question is the moral question: What about other people?
現(xiàn)在的問題是，道德問題那么其他人呢?
How can I talk about or act in my life, pursuing my happiness isn't that selfish?
我談?wù)摻?jīng)營自己的生活追求自己的快樂，這怎么不是自私?
And the answer is: "Yes, it is selfish."
答案是"是的，那是自私"
When I talk to myself, when I say to myself, "I want to be happier",
當我對自己說"我想更快樂"
I say to myself, "I want to be happier." That' s a selfish thing.
我對自己說"我想更快樂"那是一件自私的事
So it that bad? Is that immoral?
它是壞的嗎?是不道德的嗎?
Well, in our culture, selfishness and immorality have essentially become synonymous.
在我們的文化中自私和不道德成了同義詞
And that's a problem. And here's why. Because this is the No. 1
那是個問題。這就是為什么，因為這是頭號
equating to selfishness and immorality is the No. 1 cause subconsciously mostly, but not only
將自私等同于不道德是頭號原因多數(shù)是在潛意識里
