And not on love of the work or a desire to make a difference is a recipe for unhappiness 8
而不是因愛好或追求卓越所做出的職業選擇 不過是日后苦惱的根源 八
Nobody likes to fail but failure is an essential part of life and of learning If your uniform isn't dirty, you haven't been in the game Number 9
沒人喜歡失敗 但失敗是生活和學習中不可或缺的部分 如果衣服都沒弄臟 那你顯然是根本沒參與進比賽 九
I spoke earlier about definitions of personal success in an unpredictable world I hope that as you develop your own definition of success, as you'll be able to do so I hope that you will be able to do it with a close companion on your journey
之前我講了不可預知世界中的個人成功定義 我希望你們在確立自身成功定義的過程中 能夠找到一位人生旅途中的親密伴侶
In making that choice, remember that physical beauty is evolution's way of assuring us that the other person doesn't have too many intestinal parasites
在做出這個選擇時請記住 外表之美只不過是人類進化過程中 幫助我們確定對方體內是否有太多腸道寄生蟲的方式
Don't get me wrong, I am all for beauty, romance, and sexual attraction where would Hollywood and Madison Avenue be without them? But while important, those are not the only things to look for in a partner
別誤解我的意思 我支持美麗 浪漫和性感 要不然好萊塢和麥迪遜大道如何繁榮至今 雖然這些也很重要 但它們不是尋找伴侶的唯一標準
The two of you will have a long trip together, I hope and you will need each other's support and sympathy more times than you can count Speaking as somebody who has been happily married for 35 years
兩個人在一起 會有漫長的人生旅途要走 需要相互支持和慰藉 作為一個經歷了35年幸福婚姻生活的人
I can't imagine any choice more consequential for a lifelong journey than the choice of a traveling companion Number 10
比起旅行伴侶 我再也想不到任何對人生旅途 影響如此重大的決定了 十
Call your mom and dad once in a while A time will come when you will want your own grown-up, busy, hyper-successful children to call you
有時間多給父母打電話 你也會有那么一天 希望長大 繁忙 成功的孩子們給你打電話
Also, remember who paid your tuition to Princeton Well, those are my 10 suggestions
而且你們要記住 是誰為你們付了普林斯頓的學費 好了 這就是我的十條建議
They're probably worth exactly what you paid for them But they come from someone who shares your affection for this great institution and who wishes you the best for the future
也許你們覺得這些建議的價值 就如同花在它們上面的成本一樣 一文不值 但它們來自于同你們一樣 對這所大學具有深厚感情 并且祝愿你們未來好運的人
Congratulations, graduates Give 'em hell
恭喜 畢業生們 給他們好看