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How to Connect with Anyone
愛(ài)，就是要這樣看著你
Studies say four minutes of uninterrupted eye contact increases intimacy.
研究顯示四分鐘不間斷的眼神接觸會(huì)增加親密感。
Ok, I'm Jane.
我是簡(jiǎn)。
I'm David. Nice to meet you.
我是大衛(wèi)，很高興見(jiàn)到你。
Nice to meet you, too.
我也是。
I like your...
我喜歡你的……
Oh, thank you.
噢，謝謝你。
Whatever it is, it's like infinity.
不管我們?cè)诟陕铮杏X(jué)無(wú)窮無(wú)盡。
I feel nervous. Do you feel nervous? I don't know what we're doing.
我覺(jué)得好緊張。你緊張嗎？我不知道我們?cè)谧鍪裁础?/div>
It's all right.
沒(méi)關(guān)系的。
I should have peed first.
我應(yīng)該先去尿尿的。
So we invited 12 people to test this theory out.
我們邀請(qǐng)十二個(gè)人來(lái)測(cè)試這個(gè)理論。
What? You mean staring at each other's...looking into each other's eyes?
什么？你是說(shuō)盯著對(duì)方的...看著對(duì)方的眼睛嗎？
Yeah.
對(duì)。
Doesn't seem natural.
不太自然。
Four minutes is a long time.
四分鐘很長(zhǎng)。
No other instructions?
沒(méi)別的指示嗎？
No, I have to look in your eyes.
沒(méi)有，我必須看著你的眼睛。
Yeah, that's it.
對(duì)，就是這樣。
That's it.
就是這樣。
I just gotta rub my eyes.
我只是要揉我的眼睛。
I can blink, right?
我可以眨眼睛，對(duì)吧？
Shh! You're not supposed to talk.
噓!你不應(yīng)該講話(huà)。
I'm gonna hypnotize you...shh.
我要催眠你……噓。
This is intense.
這感覺(jué)太強(qiáng)烈了。
It is intense.
真的很強(qiáng)烈。
I've never done anything like that.
我從來(lái)沒(méi)做過(guò)這種事情。
I can keep going.
我可以繼續(xù)看著。
How did you feel?
你感覺(jué)怎么樣？
Weird.
很奇怪。
In 55 years of marriage, we've never really looked into each other's eyes like that. But I do look at your eyes sometimes because I'm checking your blood sugar.
在我們五十五年的婚姻里，我們從來(lái)沒(méi)有像那樣好好看著對(duì)方的眼睛。但我有時(shí)的確會(huì)看你的眼睛，因?yàn)槲以跈z查你的血糖。
You check on me all the time.
你無(wú)時(shí)無(wú)刻都在檢查我。
Yeah.
對(duì)呀。
I wondered what you were thinking.
我想知道你在想什么。
How wonderful it was to just sit here and look at my wife for a change, without discussing work, business, and situations.
這是多么美好，只是為了做點(diǎn)改變坐在這里看著我的老婆，不談工作、事業(yè)和生活遇到的問(wèn)題。
When I look at you really closely, I realize how much I need you and what you mean to me, and because that's the truth. And I couldn't imagine being with anybody else.
當(dāng)我很仔細(xì)地看著你時(shí)，我才了解到我多么需要你以及你對(duì)我的意義，因?yàn)槟鞘鞘聦?shí)。我沒(méi)辦法想像和別人在一起。
It's pretty interesting to be able to sit in front of someone that you don't know.
能坐在你不認(rèn)識(shí)的人面前還蠻有趣的。
That you just met, like, what, 10 minutes ago?
而且是你差不多十分鐘前遇到的人？
Yeah.
對(duì)啊。
And just...
而且是……
I feel like you can't not see each other.
我覺(jué)得好像不能不看著對(duì)方。
Yeah, sorry, we're gonna walk that way and yeah, let's go have a drink.
嗯，不好意思，我們要走那邊，對(duì)，一起去喝一杯吧。
Yeah, nice to meet you.
好啊，很高興認(rèn)識(shí)你。
I feel like we can get right to the dance floor after something like this.
我覺(jué)得在做了這種事之后我們好像可以直接去跳舞了。
Come on.
來(lái)吧。
One more time.
再來(lái)一次。
Okay, I didn't feel that one.
嗯，剛剛那個(gè)我沒(méi)感覺(jué)到。
You didn't feel that one?
你沒(méi)感覺(jué)到？
I didn't feel it.
我沒(méi)感覺(jué)到。
All right. Nice, nice.
好。真好，真好。
Just like old times.
就像以前那些時(shí)光。
Just like old times?
就像以前那些時(shí)光？
Say bye-bye. Bye-bye.
說(shuō)拜拜。拜拜。
