25 Unexpected Ways to Make Someone’s Day
25種意想不到的方式為TA帶來驚喜的一天
Do you remember the last time you received an unexpected call, text or email from someone who intentionally said something complimentary to you? How did it make you feel? Did it brighten your mood? Did it bring a smile to your face? What impression did this person make on you?
你是否記得上次你接到一個電話,一條短信或者一封電子郵件,故意說有東西要贈送給你?你當時感覺如何?它是否讓你的心情開朗?它是不是讓你臉上出現了微笑?這個人給你留下了什么樣的印象?
When I consider the different types of impressions we make on people, there are very few more powerful then when you do something unexpectedly to show people they are important to you. It could be a simple text message telling a friend how much you value the friendship or a short email to a co-worker complimenting him or her on the way he or she handled a difficult situation at the office today.
當我考慮給人們留下了不同的印象時,當我們對一些人做一些意想不到的事來顯示他對我們的重要性時,很少人會有更大的力量。它可以是一條簡單的短信告訴你的朋友你們之間寶貴的友誼,或者是一封電子郵件稱贊你的同事他(她)今天在辦公室解決問題的方式。
When you take your time to surprise people with acts of kindness or love, you will make them feel noticed, valued, and appreciated. You will bring a smile to their faces and joy to their hearts. It will enhance their self-esteem and strengthen their self-confidence. It will renew their energy and put a bounce in their step. It will draw them closer to you and you to them and create an extraordinary bond in your relationship. You will benefit also because there is joy in unselfish acts when you give of yourself, your time, and your resources.
當你花時間去感受人們的善舉或者愛時,你會使他們感覺他們是引人注目的,有價值的,和可欣賞的。你會使他們面帶笑容,心里很高興。這會提高他們的自尊,增強他們的自信。這會使他們能量充沛,使他們跨越一大步。這會使他們接近你并在你們之間創建一個特別的約定。當你奉獻你自己,你的時間和你的資源時,你將會受益,那就是無私的歡樂的行為。
Here are 25 unexpected things you can do to show people they are special in your eyes.
這是25件意想不到的你可以做的事來表現他們在你眼里的不同。
1. Do your children’s chores for the day.
1.今天做你孩子的雜物。
2. Drop a hand-written card in the mail to give someone an encouraging word.
2.親手給別人寫卡片郵件,并加上鼓勵的話。
3. Give your spouse or significant other a gift on your next date night.
3.在你下次約會的晚上,給你的伴侶或者其他重要的人一件禮物。
4. Shovel snow for an older couple down the street.
4.年長的夫婦在路上鏟雪。
5. Call a friend going through a difficult period to show your support.
5.在你朋友困難時期給他們打電話,來顯示你對他們的支持。
6. Send a client something special that made you think of him or her.
6.送個客戶一些特殊的禮物讓他們知道你想著他(她)們。
7. Send a gift basket or bouquet of flowers to the hotel room of a friend who is on a long road trip.
7.在你長途旅行的朋友的賓館里,送他一個禮品籃或者一個花束。
8. Invite a friend to dinner and plan an evening with his/her interest in mind.
8.邀你的一個朋友共進晚餐時,計劃一個晚上說他們感興趣的事。