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I got out of there and fast, because I realized, no matter how nice he was to me, and how intimate we were pretending to be, he was just not that into me and I wanted more.
我離開了那兒開始了節食，因為我意識到不管他對我有多好，我們假裝有多么的親密，他只是沒那么喜歡我，而且我想要的更多。
IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE GREG
如果你不相信格雷格
Twenty out of the twenty men polled said, without hesitation (well, it was all done by e-mail, but they all seemed really sure about it) , that they have never been really into a woman who they didn't want to have sex with.
20個接受調查的男人一致毫不猶豫的說（調查通過郵件，但是他們看起來非常的肯定），他們從不和不喜歡的女人做愛。
One man wrote in, "What? ! Excuse me? ! And the point is? !"
一個男人寫道，“什么？再說一遍？！這什么意思！”
What You Should Have Learned in This Chapter
你應在本章學到的
People tell you who they are all the time. When a man says he can't be monogamous, you should believe him.
人們一直在對你詮釋自己。當一個男人說他不遵循一夫一妻制的時候，你應該相信他。
Companionship is wonderful, but companionship with sex is even better.
陪伴很棒，但是有性的陪伴更完美。
Call a spade a spade or, more fittingly, a friend a friend, and go find yourself a friend that can't keep his hands off you.
有話直說，更恰當的說法是，朋友就是朋友，去給自己找一個無法把手從你身上拿開的朋友吧。
Your lost self-esteem may take longer to find than a new boyfriend, so prioritize accordingly.
失去的尊嚴會比找一個新男友更難找回，所以制定好優先等級吧。
If you're tempted to spend countless nights just cuddling with someone, buy a puppy.
如果你忍得住只是和一個人抱著度過日日夜夜，那不妨買只寵物。
There's someone out there that does want to have sex with you, hot stuff.
會有人想跟你做愛的，美人兒。
Our Super-Good Really Helpful Excises
我們超級棒的真實有用的練習
Imagine that in your minds have a big flag. Now imagine color it in with a big crayon.
想象一下你腦海里有一面旗幟。想象自己用一支大蠟筆上色。
Now, you have a big red flag. Good, because that's what a man not wanting to have sex with you is.
現在你有一面紅旗。很好，因為那就是一個不想跟你做愛的男人。
Now clear your head and go get yourself some good loving.
現在清空你的大腦，給自己找尋幸福的下一春吧。
