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25 Unexpected Ways to Make Someone’s Day
25種意想不到的方法帶給別人快樂
Do you remember the last time that you received an unexpected call, text or email, someone who intentionally said something complimentary to you? How did it make you feel, did it break your mood? Did it bring a smile onto your face? What impression did this person make on you?
你記得最近一次接到意想不到的電話、意外地收到短信或者郵件，或者某個人刻意地夸贊你嗎？這讓你感覺如何？是否讓你的壞情緒煙消云散了？有沒有讓你的臉上帶上一絲微笑？你對這個人的印象如何？
When I consider the different types of impressions we make on people, there are very few more powerful then when you do something unexpectedly to show people they are important to you. It could be a simple text message telling a friend how much you value the friendship or a short email to a co-worker complimenting him or her on the way he or she handled a difficult situation at the office today.
細想一下我們留給人們的各種印象，恐怕你沒有為你所在乎的人做過太多的出乎意料的具有正能量的事。一個簡單的信息就能告訴你的朋友，你很珍惜你們之間的友誼，或著當同事工作上遇到困難時時發一封簡短的郵件問候一下。
Results of Kind Words
贊美的結果
When you take your time to surprise people with acts of kindness or love, you will make them feel noticed, valued, and appreciated. You will bring a smile to their faces and joy to their hearts. It will enhance their self-esteem and strengthen their self-confidence. It will renew their energy and put a bounce in their step. It will draw them closer to you and you to them and create an extraordinary bond in your relationship. You will benefit also because there is joy in unselfish acts when you give of yourself, your time, and your resources.
當你花一些時間用善良和關愛的舉動去贊美別人時，你會讓他們覺得自己被關注、被重視、被欣賞了。你會帶給他們快樂，讓他們高興。這將增強他們的自尊、增加他們的自信。它會使他們精力充沛，給他們前進的步伐帶去動力。它會使你們變得親近，建立一份特殊的情誼。當你奉獻你自己、你的時間和你的資源時你也會從中獲益，你會因無私的行為而感到快樂。
Ideas to Inspire You to Action
想法激勵你行動起來
Here are 25 unexpected things you can do to show people they are special in your eyes.
這里有25種意想不到的方法，能夠表達你眼中的人們是特別的。
1. Do your children’s chores for the day.I did that today,my daughter wondered if I had fever and thought she should check my temperature.
1.某天做一下你孩子的家務。我今天這樣做了，我女兒以為我發燒了，覺得應該給我測一下體溫。
2. Drop a hand-written card in the mail to give someone an encouraging word.
2.給某人郵寄一張手寫卡片鼓勵他。
3. Give your spouse or significant other a gift on your next date night.
3.在下一次約會時給你伴侶或其他重要的人準備一份禮物。
4. Shovel snow for an older couple down the street.
4.為街邊的一對老夫妻鏟鏟積雪。
5. Call a friend going through a difficult period to show your support.
5.給一位正在經歷困難的朋友打個電話表達你對他的支持。
6. Send a client something special that made you think of him or her.
6.送客戶一瓶珍品威士忌表達你對他或她的關心。
7. Send a gift basket or bouquet of flowers to the hotel room of a friend who is on a long road trip.
7.郵寄一個禮物籃或是一束鮮花到賓館房間中給你正在長途旅行的朋友。
8. Invite a friend to dinner and plan an evening with his/her interest in mind.
8.邀請朋友共進晚餐讓他或她有一個難忘的夜晚。
9. If you are a parent, plan a special day with your kids, but don’t tell them.
9.如果你是一個家長，為你的孩子們計劃一個別具特色的一天,但不要告訴他們。
