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We need to start talking about how women underestimate their abilities
我們要討論 女性相比男性
compared to men and for women
為什么會(huì)低估自己的能力
but not men
而且和男性不同
success and likeability are negatively correlated
對(duì)于女性 成功和受歡迎程度是反向相關(guān)的
That means that as a woman is more successful in your workplaces
這意味著一個(gè)女性在事業(yè)上越成功
she will be less liked
她就會(huì)越不受人喜愛
This means that women
這意味著女性
need a different form of management and mentorship
需要另一種形式的管理和輔導(dǎo)
a different form of sponsorship and encouragement
另一種形式的支持和鼓勵(lì)
and some protection
甚至一些保護(hù)
in some ways, more than men
在某些方面 要比男性有更多的保護(hù)
And there aren't enough senior women out there to do it
而且現(xiàn)在有資歷做這些的女性還太少
so it falls upon the men who are graduating today
所以在座的男性畢業(yè)生們要和女性畢業(yè)生們
just as much or more as the women
一起肩負(fù)起這個(gè)責(zé)任 甚至更多
not just to talk about gender
不僅僅討論性別
but to help these women succeed
而且要幫助女性取得成功
When they hear a woman is really great at her job but not liked
當(dāng)聽到一個(gè)工作上很優(yōu)秀的女性不為人愛戴
take a deep breath and ask why
深呼吸一下 問問自己這是為什么
We need to start talking openly about
我們需要公開地探討
the flexibility all of us need to have both a job and a life
我們都需要的靈活機(jī)制來平衡工作和生活
A couple of weeks ago in an interview I said that
幾周前我接受了一個(gè)采訪
I leave the office at 5:30 p.m. to have dinner with my children
我說我會(huì)5點(diǎn)半離開公司去和我的小孩吃晚飯
And I was shocked at the press coverage
而媒體報(bào)道讓我震驚了
One of my friends said
我的一個(gè)朋友說
she wasn't sure I couldn't get more headlines
她不確定 就算我用斧子砍人
if I had murdered someone with an ax
是否能上一樣多的頭條
I told her I wasn't really interested in trying that
我告訴她我對(duì)砍人沒興趣
But this showed me
不過這讓我明白
this is an unresolved issue for all of us
對(duì)于我們所有人不管是男人還是女人
for men and women
這是個(gè)未解決的問題
Otherwise
要不是這樣
why would everyone write so much about it
為什么大家會(huì)對(duì)此有那么多評(píng)論
And maybe, most importantly
也許 最重要的是
we need to start talking about how fewer women than men
我們應(yīng)該開始討論為什么只有少數(shù)的女性
even from places like HBS, most likely even in this class
即便來自HBS 即便是你們這屆畢業(yè)生
aspire to the very top jobs
渴望坐上最高的領(lǐng)導(dǎo)職位
We will not close the leadership gap
我們無法彌補(bǔ)領(lǐng)導(dǎo)崗位上的差距
until we close the professional ambition gap
除非我們先彌補(bǔ)職業(yè)抱負(fù)上的差距
