9. Be Thoughtful
第9課 為別人著想
Being thoughtful simply means thinking of others before yourself.
為別人設想的意思就是在想到自己之前先替別人著想。
What you say or do will have an effect on others.
你所說或所做的每一件事都會對別人產生影響。
So it is important that you think before you say or do anything.
因此,在你說或做任何事情之前先想一下是很重要的。
In this way, you can avoid hurting others' feelings.
這樣的話,你可以避免傷害別人的感情。
Moreover, a thoughtless act or remark can spoil a perfect relationship.
此外,欠缺考慮的行動或言論也可能破壞完美的關系。
Remember these rules,
記住這些規則:
If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything.
如果你沒有好話要說就什么也不要說;
Likewise if you think what you do will hurt others,don't do it
同樣地,如果你認為你所做的事會傷人的話,那么就別做它。
After all,what goes around comes around.
畢竟,種什么因,得什么果。