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When a woman walks into a crowded room,
一位女士走進(jìn)擁擠的房間，
what her eyes do in the first moments may determine，
對(duì)于任何一個(gè)與她目光相遇的男士來(lái)說(shuō)，
how attractive she is to any man meeting her gaze.
她前幾秒鐘的眼神可能決定了她是否迷人可愛(ài)。
If she turns her eyes deliberately toward a particular man,
最新研究表明：如果她有意將眼神轉(zhuǎn)向某個(gè)男士，
he immediately rates her as more likeable, and physically attractive.
他會(huì)馬上認(rèn)為她十分可愛(ài)性感。
If she glances at him but then turns her eyes away,
如果她只是瞟了一眼就轉(zhuǎn)移了目光，
that same man will rate her as much as less sexy.
男人便多半會(huì)覺(jué)得這位女士缺乏魅力。
Our impressions of others are influenced by these simple, nonverbal clues --
我們對(duì)人的印象受到這些簡(jiǎn)單的，非語(yǔ)言的暗示影響---
and we are not objective in our judgment.
我們的判斷并非客觀。
That could mean that a man rates a woman as less attractive,
這可能意味著，男人因女人轉(zhuǎn)移目光而批判她缺乏魅力,
when she averts her gaze because he's feeling rejected.
是因?yàn)樗杏X(jué)遭到了拒絕。
The psychologists believe that the No.1 thing you can do,
心理學(xué)家認(rèn)為，要想和人建立一種關(guān)系，
to establish a relationship is simply looking at the other person,
首要的事情就是注視著對(duì)方，
especially when listening to him.
尤其是在聽(tīng)他講話時(shí)。
In fact, there's evidence that when someone looks at us,
事實(shí)上，有證據(jù)證明，別人對(duì)我們的注視,
it's physiologically arousing, and there are these brain regions that get more engaged.
有生理上的興奮作用，大腦的相關(guān)區(qū)域也變得更加活躍。
Gaze can simply make you focus more on the person and what he might be saying or doing.
凝視可使你聚焦于對(duì)方及其他的言行舉止。
And in situations where romance is a possibility,
而在可能產(chǎn)生戀情的男女之間，
it makes the mind race and the heart beat a bit faster.
凝神還使你心猿意馬，心跳加快。
