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Stuck in the past
糾結(jié)過去
I think it's natual to reflect at the end of the day,
我認為在一天結(jié)束的時候是一種自然的反映,
or the end of the week,month or year.
或者一周，每月或每年結(jié)束的時候。
But the danger of a reflecting and focusing on the past is that we kind of get lost in it.
但專注于過去的反映會危險到讓我們迷失在其中。
I know people that think about all the mistakes they've made,
我知道人們思考他們已經(jīng)犯過的所有錯誤,
the lost opportunities,the things they wish they could go back and change.
錯失的良機,他們希望能夠回過頭去改變的東西。
They always seem to be talking about the past.
他們似乎總是談?wù)撨^去。
They just can't let go of it.
他們只是不能放開。
It's almost like they spend more time in the past than in the present.
幾乎他們過去花的時間比現(xiàn)在更多。
On the other hand, I think having zero regret is a mistake.
另一方面,我認為零遺憾是一種錯誤。
It's good to say "sorry", it's good to learn from my mistakes.
很高興說“對不起”,因為從我的錯誤中吸取教訓非常好。
But too much is too much.
但太多就是肯定太多了。
It's nice to think about the good old days when life was great.
很高興思考以前時光幸福的生活。
Times from my childhood, times when we used to go to a certain school, times when we used to play certain games.
從我的童年時代,我們過去常常上那所學校的那些時光,我們過去常常玩那些游戲的那些時光。
It's nice to think about the once-in-a-while and be not sdulgic.
很高興偶爾回想,但不要沉湎于此。
But we live in the present, it's good to laugh about time's gone by.
但我們活在當下,對于時光的流逝開懷大笑很好。
But what happens when we are crying about those times,
但當我們哭訴那些時光的時候發(fā)生了什么,
what happens when we get depressed because of them.
因為我們?yōu)槭湃サ亩趩省?/div>
The past could never be a stronger pool on us than the present.
過去的永遠不可能比我們目前的更強。
When we are another, I think we have to let go of the past if it keeps us from functioning well in the present.
當我們是另一個的時候, 如果它繼續(xù)影響當下的話，我認為我們必須放開過去。
