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對無望之事喋喋不休
It’s easy to bring up fights from the past, or nag your partner for things in their history, or things they believe or do differently from you. This is always a bad choice, though. It changes nothing, and it makes you look like you’re never going to let anything go. Be the type of person who can get over a fight when it’s resolved, and not bring it up in each fight that follows. “Live in the moment” sounds like silly advice when you’re in the middle of an argument, but it’s something that needs to be done so you’re not prolonging every fight you have.
過去的事能夠輕而易舉引發爭吵，而對方的曾經或他們與你背道而馳的行為想法也會讓你碎碎念。這同樣是個愚蠢的表現。嘮叨無濟于事，這只會顯得你對一切都無法釋懷。要做這樣的人，不為已了之事煩憂，亦不為未了之事憂愁。當你們爭得面紅耳赤時，“活在當下”聽起來蠢透了，但這是需要踐行的，唯有這樣爭吵才不會愈演愈烈。
