有動力很上進的男人很棒
No, I’m not talking about an expensive car. I’m talking about a man who has the ability to go after what he wants. Ambition is something that women find very attractive in men. Not ambition in the sense that you knock other people down to build yourself up, but in the fact that you will work hard to get what you want and help others to do the same thing.
這里要講的不是名車,而是強調男人應該能夠努力爭取自己渴望的東西。女人認為雄心壯志的男人很有魅力。這里的壯志不是說你可以撂倒他人強大自我,而是說你能夠通過努力工作來得到自己渴望的東西,同時還能向他人伸出援手。