做自己,也給對方做自己的機會
One of the key aspects of every relationship is letting yourself and your special someone be themselves. You were attracted to this person for a reason, and there’s no need to try and change them.
戀愛中關鍵的一點是,讓自己和你的那個她(他)做自己。你被對方吸引不無緣由,沒必要下功夫去改變他們。
Likewise, don’t let someone try to change you. You are who you are, and if that’s not good enough for either of you, then this isn’t really a relationship that’s going to work.
同樣,不要讓對方改變你,你就是你,如果互相覺得不適合,那不如趁早散伙。