10. You Don’t Get Out Enough

你很宅

Of course, there is also a good chance that not having friends isn’t related to a specific character flaw. Instead, it might just be because you haven’t had the opportunity to meet people whose company you enjoy. If that’s the case, create opportunities to meet other people based on your interests and activities and be willing to take a chance on striking up a conversation with a stranger. It just might turn into a lifelong friendship.

當然，朋友少也可能會歸咎于好的因素，而非特別的人格缺陷。也許，那只是因為你沒有足夠的機會遇見那個志同道合的友人。如果真是這樣，那就要制造相遇的機會。并要根據你的喜好，挑選你愛的活動，做足跟一個陌生人侃侃而談的準備。這種不期而遇興許就成了地久天長的友誼。