6. 搞清對方年齡

This is an important part of your checklist. Of course, there is a saying that "age doesn't matter" but it does matters, especially, if your age is halfway where you would need to make some adjustments.
這是你事前調查要做的一個重要部分。雖然有“年齡不重要”的說法，但是事實卻并非如此，特別是在你即將蛻變成“剩男/剩女”的階段。

7. 約會前問清楚對方是否有時間

This actually serves the best interest for women since economically, men provide everything, and they do spend much of the activities that they do with women, especially during dating stage.
這一點在女生身上特別需要注意，男方一般會比較愿意花時間和女生待在一起，特別是約會的時候。

8. 了解對方信仰

What would really make a good relationship is a mutual understanding that comes if two people understand each other. It is still ideal that you date someone whom you share the same standards with. Although the society thinks that love conquers everything but this is a precautionary measure to you that you won't discuss things that might offend you about their beliefs.
兩個人之間的相互理解是一段完美感情必備的因素。如果你的另一半和你有著同樣的生活標準那是最理想的狀態。雖說愛能克服一切，但是相同信仰是保證你們倆不會做出些冒犯對方事情的預先保證。

9. 搞清對方婚姻狀況

Make sure that you know if this person has been married or just came from a break up. Know some personal information so you can gauge if the person is trusting and can be a good collaborate. After all, dating is an avenue in forming a new relationship.
要搞清楚對方有沒有結過婚，還是剛分手。搞清楚這個私人信息能幫你正確估計這個是否值得信賴，是不是適合在一起。畢竟約會是戀愛的必經之路。