5. Belittling His Hobbies 貶損他的嗜好
Everyone has a hobby or two that their mate doesn't like. However, you should never keep them from doing it. Also, never demand that they take an interest in your hobby. The message you send is that your hobbies are much more important than his and that's not the message you should be sending.
每個人都有一兩種嗜好是他伴侶所不喜歡的。然而,你絕不應該禁止他去做。還有,絕不要強迫他選擇你的嗜好,因為你所傳達的信息就是:你的嗜好遠比他的重要。你不能傳達出這種信息。