11. Stop gossiping. –Gossiping about others is a lose/lose situation. It hurts them, and then it hurts your reputation.

不要傳播流言蜚語。傳播別人的流言蜚語你會處于不利的形勢。這會傷害他們，也會損害你的名聲。

12. Stop making promises you can't keep. –Don't over-promise. Over-deliver on everything you do.

做不到的事情不要作出承諾。不要過多的承諾。要多多兌現(xiàn)。

13. Stop being defensive. –Just because someone sees something differently than you doesn't mean either one of you is wrong. Keep an open mind. Open minds discover great things.

不要太自衛(wèi)。別人看待某件事的觀點和你不同并不意味著你們都是錯的。敞開你的心扉吧，你會有更多發(fā)現(xiàn)。

14. Stop comparing people to others. –No two people are alike. Everyone has their own strengths. We are only competing against our own selves.

不要拿別人和他人做比較。沒有兩個人是一樣的。每個人都有自己的優(yōu)點。我們能做的是與自己競爭。

15. Stop expecting people to be perfect. – ‘Perfect’ is the enemy of ‘good.’ And genuine ‘goodness’ is hard to find in this world. Don't overlook it.

別希望別人能變得完美。—'完美'和'好'是敵人。真正的‘完美’在世界上是難以找到的。不要忽視這一點。

16. Stop trying to be everything to everyone. –It's impossible. But making one person smile can change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus.

不要試圖成為每個人的一切。—這是不可能的。但是使人微笑可以改變世界。或許不是整個世界，但是能改變他們的實際。所以縮小你的焦點。

17. Stop screwing people over just because you can get away with it. –Just because you can get away with something doesn't mean you should do it. Think bigger. Do what you know in your heart is right.

不要跟損友鬼混僅僅因為你做了壞事也不受處罰。僅僅因為你能僥幸逃脫不受處罰并不意味著你應(yīng)該這么去做。多多思考。做你認為對的事。

18. Stop making mountains out of molehills. – People make mistakes. Crap happens. There's no reason to stress out yourself and everyone around you because of it. One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year's time?” If not, then it's not worth worrying about.

不要把小丘變成大山。人們會犯錯，壞事會發(fā)生。無名的壓力圍繞著你和你身邊的每一個人因為這件事情。一種檢驗這件事是否值得去想的方式是問自己：“一年后我還會在意這件事情嗎？”如果沒有，那就不值得去煩惱。

19. Stop being dramatic. –Stay out of other people's drama and don't needlessly create your own.

不要太戲劇性。置身于別人的劇本之外并且也別去創(chuàng)造你自己的劇本

20. Stop giving out advice, and just listen. – Less advice is often the best advice. People don’t need lots of advice, they need a listening ear and some positive reinforcement. What they want to know is already somewhere inside of them. They just need time to think, be and breathe, and continue to explore the undirected journeys that will eventually help them find their direction.

別給太多建議，聽就可以了。沒有建議通常是最好的建議。他們不需要很多建議，他們需要有人傾聽和積極的聲援。他們想知道的已經(jīng)在他們心理。他們僅僅需要時間去思考，喘喘氣，然后繼續(xù)在沒有方向的旅程中探索并且最終能幫助他們找到方向。

And remember, your relationship with yourself is the closest and most important relationship you will ever have. So pay attention to it, develop it, nurture it, and never, ever stop.

最后請記住，你和自己的關(guān)系是你有過最親密最重要的關(guān)系。所以請關(guān)注它，開發(fā)它，培養(yǎng)它，永遠，不要停止。