You Accept Faults and don't Criticize
你可以接受他的不完美，不會因此抱怨

Loving is accepting other people and loving them for who they are. If you are on the process of looking for potential partners and are participating in arranged dates but you always find yourself criticizing the person before he or she can show you who they are, then you are not ready to love yet. If you find yourself comparing your date with your ex then you have not yet moved on. Therefore do not declare the "I am ready to love" statement to the world. It is because it is clear that you are not ready to love yet.

愛是接受一個人，你愛他是因為他就是他。如果你正在尋找可以約會的對象，參加了相親，但還沒等到了解他這個人就開始對他指手畫腳，那么你就還沒有準備好。如果你總是那他和舊愛相比，那么你還沒有準備好。所以，就不要對世界宣布“我準備好了！”，因為很明顯，你還沒有準備好。