3. Break the "touch barrier." Touch the person lightly on the arm or shoulder when you're talking. Just make it a quick, innocent touch and don't make a big deal out of it. Holding hands is also a good way to break the touch barrier. (Guys, you may want to read How to Touch a Girl for more ideas on how to break the touch barrier without overstepping boundaries.) If everything is going well, try kissing the person on the cheek. If you find your lips near their ear (like if you're hugging someone from behind, or whispering something to them) go in for a gentle kiss on the cheek and see how they respond.

打破“接觸障礙”。當你們在談論時，輕輕地觸碰他人的手臂或者肩膀。一定要迅速，看起來是無意間的觸碰，不要小題大做。牽手是打破接觸障礙的一個很好的方法。（伙計們你可能會很想讀到關于在如何打破接觸障礙時讀懂一個女孩的心思確沒有超出限度的文字。）如果一切發展順利，那么試著去吻她的臉頰。如果你的嘴唇靠近他們的耳朵（比如你從背后抱住一個人，或者和他們低聲耳語），那么溫柔地吻著臉頰，看他們是如何反應的。

* Please note that the touch barrier is culture dependent. In certain cultures, e.g. Islamic, breaking the touch barrier is a big taboo that can land you in serious trouble. Be very careful.

請注意接觸障礙是依附于文化的。在某些文化中，比如伊斯蘭教，打破接觸障礙是一個很大的禁忌這會讓你陷入嚴重的麻煩之中，一定要小心！