2. Look inviting and approachable. You might not realize it when you send a "leave me alone" message, so read up on How to Look Approachable. Uncross your arms, keep your hands away from your face, make eye contact, and smile! Similarly, read his or her body language - is this person into you? Or does this person seem uncomfortable?
看起來要親切。當你發出“別理我”的信號的時候,你可能都沒有意識到,所以要仔細研修如何讓你的看起來很有親和力。不要交叉環抱你的雙手,不要用你的手摸你的臉,讓眼神交匯,微笑!同樣的,讀懂他或她的肢體語言——這個人對你有意思嗎?或者這個人看起來很不安?