3. You have to do the dance.

你需要學(xué)會打太極（譯者注：我的意思是不能太強硬，雙方你來我往才是王道）

By this I mean, most of the time you are not going to be able to get her into your bed in 5 minutes. Sure, there might be an occasion where that happens, but usually you have to kind of woo her into your bedroom and that means that you have to go through the motions. Do not be impatient or try too hard, or else the only one that is going to be in your bed is…YOU!

我的意思是，大多數(shù)情況下你不太可能在五分鐘之內(nèi)就把美女弄到你的床上去。確實，這樣的情況還是有可能發(fā)生的，但是通常情況下你需要的是把她騙進你的臥室，在這個階段需要的只是走走過場。別不耐煩或者過分的努力去這么做，否則唯一一個進你臥室的人將是你自己！