4. "No one wants to date a ..."

　　沒人想和一個...約會。

　　Unfortunately, some jobs come with certain stereotypes that can make a prospective date run for the hills. For example, being a lawyer or therapistcould make you a dating pariah because nobody's idea of a good date is to argue or be psychoanalyzed!

　　很不幸，有些刻板的工作讓約會離你遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)的。比如，律師或臨床醫(yī)學(xué)家的工作可能讓你和約會無緣，因為沒人會認(rèn)為好的約會是辯論或被進(jìn)行精神治療。

　　Solution: Be yourself, not your job. If you have a job with a poor career dating profile, don't reinforce these prejudgments. Be aware of the stereotypes that go along with your job title and avoid discussing work-related topics until you and your date have a better understanding of each other。

　　解決之道：做你自己，而不是你的工作。如果你本來的工作就會給別人一種不適合約會的形象，那自己就不要再增加這一負(fù)面影響了。要注意你工作職位中的那些陳腔濫調(diào)，直到你和約會對象有更好的了解之前不要談和工作相關(guān)的事情。