14. Do it his or her way--sometimes; you need to do things their way just to show how much you love them and respect their feelings.
按照對(duì)方喜歡的方式行事——有時(shí)候,你可以按照對(duì)方喜歡的方式行事,并以此來(lái)傳達(dá)你對(duì)伴侶的愛戀和尊重。
15. Know his or her needs--what good is a spouse if he/she does not know the needs of their significant others? This should be your primary concern!
知道對(duì)方的需求——如果不知道另一半的需要,那還算什么好伴侶?這一點(diǎn)是首先需要留心的。