1 Tone down your fashions. First impressions do count.
You can still wear brightly colored clothes, but look at the fit and the style.
Wear more tailored clothing, more put together.
不再那么在乎外表。當你發現自己不再盲目的喜歡跟風似的和一群人混在一起,開始尊重自己的意愿做自己需要做的事情,開始安排自己的種種計劃,規劃自己的方向,自己的獨處也變得充滿意義。
2 Use manners. Try to be courteous without being stuffy or inflexible.
When meeting new people, shake their hand. A solid grip, but not too hard, two pumps of the hand and let go. Don't look at your hands; look them in the eye. Repeat their name and make an effort to remember it.
Avoid interrupting people during conversation; people find this irritating.
Don't play with things, look away, or fidget.
注意自己的儀態。心態,健全平和的心態是始終貫穿成功之路的籌碼。正確地樹立前進的目標,讓生活目標而不是在沉重氛圍的度過,記住,任何時候都不要把自己搞得太累,生活的價值就完全失去了。