9.If you haven't talked to the person before, don't just explode with conversation and interest one day at random. While occasionally this can leave a positive impression, a lot of the time people will wonder if you're trying too hard. Casual asides to a person leading up to conversations are a better way to go.
如果你從來沒有和對方說過話,切忌直接找對方說話或談論彼此的興趣,雖然偶爾會給人留下好的印象,更多時候你的熱情會嚇跑對方。