1. Ask questions that require more than a one-word response. You do not want to put the other person in a position to be able to say yes or no. Instead of saying "are you going away this weekend?" ask "where are you going this weekend?" Now the person will probably answer with a location, for example, the beach. Now you have something else to talk about! The beach, silly!
避免問一般疑問句。不要問對方“你周末是否出去?”而是問“你周末有什么打算?”然后你可以沿著他的話題接著問下去。