Lastly, have something to say!
言之有物

This is probably the most difficult tip of all, but don't bore your audience with stories that go nowhere or drone on and on and on. Talk about things topics other than yourself and remember to LISTEN as well!
這可能是最困難的地方，使你的聽眾不覺得枯燥無味。談論的主題以外的東西，并記住自己同時也需要懂得傾聽！

We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak. - Epicetus
我們有兩個耳朵，一個嘴巴，意味著我們應該聽得比說的多。

Being a good listener is also an extremely attractive quality in a man! Am I right, ladies?
作一個好的傾聽者也是一個男人身上很吸引人的品質，我說的對嗎，女士們？