Personality Trait 6

Do: Be challenging 欲擒故縱

One mistake other guys make is to be too aggressive with women.
有些人常犯的一個錯誤是他們追女人時太咄咄逼人了。

Instead of doing this, you should try make her work for your attraction. For instance, you should do a few things leaves her wondering if you like her. The more she has to work for your affections, the more she'll be into you.
與之相反，你應該設法讓她采取行動來吸引你。比如說，你應該做幾件使她懷疑你是否喜歡她的事。她為討取你的歡心做得越多，她就會愛你越深。

Don't: Sacrificing your status to make her happy.
為討紅顏一笑，寧愿犧牲自己的地位

Some men think that if they do everything women want, women would like them more. Big mistake--women hate this kind of behavior. They don't want men who are weak, tentative, and doesn't seem to have his act straight.
有些男人以為只要對女人有求必應，那么女人就會深愛他們。大錯特錯——其實女人討厭這種行為。她們不喜歡軟弱、優柔寡斷而且拐彎抹角的男人。