Personality Trait 2
Do: Desirable “花花公子”
Women like guys who are pursued by other women. To trigger this reaction , you should flirt and meet with multiple women, instead of trying to attract a single one.
女人都對其他女人追求的男人懷有極大的興趣。要達到這種效果,你必須學會與不同的女人搭訕、調(diào)情,而不是固守一個獵物。
So next time you're in public, try meeting and flirting with different women. Eventually you'll find that there will be a few women who are competing for your attention.
因此下一次你在公共場所,試試與不同的女人搭訕、調(diào)情。最終你會發(fā)現(xiàn),好幾個女人都想要吸引你的注意。
Don't: Using Insecure Body Language. 使用不自信的身體語言
Have you ever acted polite and formal with a woman on the first date? You may have faked a few smiles and laughed at all her jokes, trying to make her like you. It may be "nice," but women also think it's "wussy." She may not see it, but trust me when I say that she sees right through you.
初次約會時,你是否表現(xiàn)得既禮貌又拘謹?為了讓她喜歡你,你可能時不時地堆出虛偽的笑容,聽她說所有笑話時都裝著笑出來。這么做也許讓你顯得“和藹可親”,但女人也會認為這是“老實巴交”。別以為她可能沒看出來,但請相信我所說的,她已經(jīng)看透了你。