6. Express your creative side. 表達(dá)你的創(chuàng)造性。

Cultivate outlets for creative self-expression. Explore music, art, writing, poetry, etc. Be artistic. Put your ideas into physical form。

培養(yǎng)表達(dá)創(chuàng)造性的渠道，比如音樂，藝術(shù)，書法，詩歌等等。建立一套商業(yè)模式。讓自己充滿藝術(shù)感。把你的想法以自然的形式表露出來。

7. Embrace conscious sexuality. 擁抱有意識(shí)的性行為。

You and you alone must decide the role sex will play in your life. There are no right or wrong answers. If you want it and enjoy it, let that be enough. Different women had widely varying opinions on what kind of sexual expression they personally preferred, ranging from waiting until marriage to having guilt-free one-night stands。

你必須自己決定性在你的生命中扮演的角色。你的答案沒有對(duì)錯(cuò)之分。如果你想要而且樂在其中，那就讓自己滿足。不同的女性在性愛好方面存在很大的差異，有人一直等到結(jié)婚才會(huì)過性生活，有人則喜歡無罪的一夜情。

8. Be beautiful. 讓自己美麗。

True beauty comes from the inside. It can't be found beneath a load of cosmetics and surgical alterations. Recognize that you're a beautiful person on the inside, and you'll broadcast that awareness on the outside. You are beautiful。

真正的美發(fā)自內(nèi)心。濃妝和整容不能使你美麗。讓自己的內(nèi)在成為一個(gè)美麗的人，然后通過外表傳播出去，你就是美麗的。

9. Keep your heart open. 打開自己的心靈。

Regardless of how badly you may have been hurt in the past, keep your heart open. You're stronger than you think. The rewards of love outweigh the risks of being hurt again. You're here to express love, not to live in fear。

無論以前受了多么嚴(yán)重的傷害，你都要敞開心扉。你比自己想像的要堅(jiān)強(qiáng)。愛的回報(bào)勝于再次受傷害。活在世上就是為了表達(dá)愛，而不是為了憂慮。

10. Become wise. 讓自己明智起來。

You are highly intuitive, so work on deepening your ability to trust your intuition. Keep learning and growing. In the long run, your wisdom will become one of your greatest assets, both as a way to meet your own needs and to help others. (Many women placed a very high value on developing their wisdom.)

你直覺很好，所以應(yīng)該深化這種能力，相信自己的直覺。保持學(xué)習(xí)和成長(zhǎng)。從長(zhǎng)遠(yuǎn)來看，你的智慧會(huì)成為自己最大的資產(chǎn)之一，這對(duì)于滿足自己的要求和幫助別人都是如此。(許多女性把增強(qiáng)智慧看得很重。)

Being a man or woman isn't about blindly following popular gender patterns, nor is it about rejecting such patterns out of hand and rebelliously embracing their opposites. Ultimately you must define what kind of man or woman you will become. This is a choice you must make for yourself as an individual, regardless of what anyone else thinks. What kind of man/woman do you wish to be? Life awaits your answer…

做一名男性或者女性并不是盲目地去遵從流行的性別模式，也不是全盤否定這些模式而叛逆地反其道而行。從根本上說，你必須決定自己希望成為什么樣的男人或女人。無論他人怎樣想，作為一個(gè)個(gè)體，你必須為自己做出選擇。你希望成為什么樣的男人/女人？生活等待著你的答案……