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The selfish person

自私的人

He Covers His“Black Hole”Personality

他很會隱藏自己的“陰暗”性格。

The selfish person knows that if he acts like himself right away, he would nevermake friends. Instead, he starts by acting like a very polite cordial person. At first, he’s interested in getting to know you, and listens carefully to you. Then, he gradually starts to withdraw, and only shows up when he needs something.

自私的人很清楚，要是言行舉止任由自己的性子，他很難交到朋友。所以，他會表現得非常友好熱情。一開始，他很愿意了解你、很用心地聽你說話。然后，他的熱情就會慢慢變淡，只會在需要你時才出現。

He usually brings lots of conversation to the table, and always has something to say. He does that to imply an open minded, interesting, and interested personality, but you can sense that he’s not really interested in any of those subjects; he just uses them as a cover for an empty take-everything-I-can personality. It’s like a black hole—you can’t expect to get love from a person who can only take.

這種人通常談資甚廣，任何話題都能插上兩句。他這么做是為了表現得性格開放風趣，但你卻能感覺到他其實并不是真的喜歡談話話題，反倒顯得是對他那“假大空”性格的欲蓋彌彰罷了。這就像一個“黑洞”——只進不出，你不可能從這種人身上得到任何真心回饋的。

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