可可電臺，每期節(jié)目一話題，讓英語磨練耳朵的同時(shí)學(xué)到更多有益的小知識，豐富知識的同時(shí)受益于生活。

討喜法

Ask for advice.

征求意見。

Asking someone for advice is, somewhat surprisingly, a great strategy for getting people to like you. Asking foradvice shows that you value the other individual's opinion and demonstratesrespect. Everyone likes to feel needed and important. When you make someonefeel better about himself or herself, that person will most certainly end up liking you for it.

有點(diǎn)意外吧，向別人征求意見很容易讓別人喜歡上你。征求意見表明你看重他們的想法也能顯示你的尊重。每個人都喜歡被需要以及他們很重要的感覺，你讓別人自我感覺更好了，他最終也會因此喜歡你的。

Ask questions.

問問題。

Asking other people questions —about their lives, their interests, their passions —is a surefire way to get brownie points in their friendship books.People are egocentric —they love to talk aboutthemselves. If you're asking questions and getting people to talk aboutthemselves, they'll leave the conversation thinking you're the coolest. Even ifthe conversation didn't really give the other person a reason to like you, heor she will think better of you subconsciously just for indulging this or herego.

問別人一些關(guān)于它們生活、興趣或愛好的問題是贏得友誼屢試不爽的方法。人們都以自我為中心——他們喜歡討論自己。如果你問問題，讓他們談?wù)撽P(guān)于自己的事，聊完天的時(shí)候他們會覺著你真好。即使對話內(nèi)容真的沒法讓對方喜歡上你，但就因?yàn)槌两谶@種自我價(jià)值感里，他或她在潛意識里也會對你印象更好。

【知識點(diǎn)講解】

end up 結(jié)束

例句：

You could end up running this company if you play your cards right.

你要是處理得當(dāng)，到頭來這個公司能歸你掌管。

Wasteful people usually end up in debt.

揮霍浪費(fèi)者最后往往負(fù)債。

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