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Use Verbal Confirmation.

言語確認。

Most psychology books refer to this technique as "active listening." Active listening revolves around demonstrating your listening skills by repeating segments of what an individual has said to you.

大多數心理學書籍把這個稱為“積極傾聽”。積極傾聽圍繞的是通過重復對方的一部分話來證明你的傾聽技巧。

In speech this kind of dialogue can actually go a long way to make people like you more. It makes the other individual feel as though you really are paying attention. Plus, people love to hear their own words echoed back at them as it pats their egos a bit.

在實際對話中這種對話能繼續下去并使人們更喜歡你。這會使對方感覺你真的很投入，此外，人們喜歡聽到他們的話被附和，這能提高他們的自信。

【知識點講解】

refer to vt.涉及；指的是；提及；參考；適用于

例句：

The rule refers only to special cases.

這條規則只涉及一些特殊的情況。

I was not referring to her when I said so.

當我那么說時,我并不是指她。

pay attention 集中注意力

例句：

You must pay attention to your study.

你必須專心學習。

Please pay attention to the difference between the two words.

請注意這兩個詞之間的區別。

You must pay attention to your teacher in the class.

上課的時候必須專心聽老師講課。

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