可可電臺，每期節目一話題，讓英語磨練耳朵的同時學到更多有益的小知識，豐富知識的同時受益于生活。

初次約會技巧

Choose Controversial Over Dull Every Time

每次約會的爭論氣氛勝于沉悶氣氛

Forcing people to discuss interesting but more controversial topics made for more enjoyable first date conversation.

迫使大家討論有意思但更有爭議性的話題，營造這樣的氣氛會讓第一次約會交談的氣氛更令人愉快。

We limited the type of discussions that onlinedaters could engage in by eliminating their ability to ask anything that they wanted and giving them a preset list of questions and allowingthem to ask only these questions.

我們對網上交友者所討論的話題限定類型，不允許想問什么就問什么，把可以問的問題給他們列出一個表，只允許他們問這些問題。

The questions we chose had nothing to do with the weather and how many brothers and sisters they have, and instead all the questions were interesting and personally revealing (ie.,“how many romantic partners did you have?”, “When was your last breakup?”, “Have you ever broken someone's heart?”, “How do you feel about abortion?”)… Instead of talking about the World Cup or their favorite desserts,they shared their inner most fears or told the story of losing their virginity.

我們選擇的問題與天氣無關，也不問有多少兄弟姐妹，所有的問題都很有意思，而且都能從問題的回答中看出每個人的個性（如，“你談過多少次戀愛？”“你上一次分手是什么時候？”“你傷過別人的心嗎？”“你對墮胎這個問題怎么看？”）…不談論世界杯或自己喜歡的甜點，分享彼此內心深處的恐懼或者告訴對方自己失身的秘密。

Everyone, both sender and replier, was happier withthe interaction…What we learned from this little experiment is that when people are free to choose what type of discussions they want to have, they often gravitate toward an equilibrium that is easy to maintain but one that no onereally enjoys or benefits from.

每個人既要向對方講述自己的故事也要傾聽對方的傾訴，進行快樂互動…我們從這個小實驗中可以了解到大家自由選擇自己想要討論什么話題，他們往往傾向平衡易于維護，但不會從中體驗到真正的愉悅感受或從中受益。

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