重點講解：
1. come to terms with
勉強接受；向…讓步；對…妥協；
eg. She had come to terms with the fact that her husband would always be crippled.
她只好接受了丈夫將終生殘疾這個現實。
eg. He can come to terms with being poor.
他能夠忍受貧窮。
2. let go of
放棄，舍棄（感情、態度、控制權）；
eg. Out on the course you must discipline yourself to let go of detailed theory.
在高爾夫球場上，你必須訓練自己做到不拘泥于細枝末節的理論。
eg. Open your alms to change, but don't let go of your values.
勇于改變。但切不可放棄你的價值觀。
3. go through
經歷，經受（尤指苦難或艱難時期）；
eg. I'm trying to be more centred, and not fall apart when I go through difficult things.
在我經歷艱難困苦之時，我努力讓自己保持鎮定自若，不要崩潰。
eg. eople forget that we had to go through a very difficult period with transfers.
也許大家都忘記了我們必須經歷的那個艱難的轉變期。
4. aspire to sth.
向往；渴望；有志于；
eg. They aspired to be gentlemen, though they fell far short of the ideal.
他們想要成為君子，雖然離這個理想還差得很遠。
eg. You should always aspire to becoming the best.
你應該經常追求成為自己領域里的佼佼者。