可可電臺,每期節目一話題,讓英語磨練耳朵的同時學到更多有益的小知識,豐富知識的同時受益于生活。
Habits You'd Be Better Off Without
你需要戒掉的壞習慣
Perfectionism and self-doubt
完美主義和自我懷疑
Recently, someone said to me, "Perfectionism isactually Failurism."
最近有人對我說,“完美主義實際上是失敗主義。”
Why? Because when you are a perfectionist, you constantly doubt yourself.
為什么?因為當你是完美主義者時,你會不斷地懷疑自己。
You look for the failure in your life and attempt to fix it. Then you have to deal with all the failures that crop up from your attempt to fix the last failure.
你會尋找生活中的失敗然后試圖去修復它。然后,你還得去處理上次你試圖去修復結果卻失敗了的事情。
It is a destructive and unnecessary cycle.
這是種破壞性和不必要的循環。
If you're always focusing on the negative, your mind begins to identify with that. Why not try focusing mostly on the positive?
如果你總是把注意力集中在負面的事情上,你的大腦就會開始識別這些事情。為什么不試著去關注正面的事情呢?
【知識點津】
failurism 失敗主義
crop up (尤指石頭)裸露在地面各處; 突然發生; 意外地發現; 犯錯誤
例句:
Misprints often crop up in the papers.
報上常出現印刷錯誤。
destructive adj.破壞性的; 毀滅性的; 有害的
例句:
Severe damage witnessed the destructive force of the storm.
嚴重的損失表明了這場暴風雨巨大的破壞力。
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