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Avoiding conflict
回避沖突
Never fighting or failing to bring up issues that are bothering you is a relationship time bomb.
回避令你鬧心的問題,就等于埋下了一枚定時炸彈。
When you're concerned about something it won't just go away if you ignore it – just like a bump in the carpet it will pop up somewhere else.
當你為某事憂慮時,不去想它不等于它不存在——就像地毯下的硬物,不是在這兒鼓出來,就是在那兒鼓出來。
Remember, it's normal and healthy for couples to disagree from time to time.
記住,兩人之間偶爾意見不合很正常,而且在某種程度上還有益關系和睦。
As long as you argue constructively and are able to compromise and move ahead, it's actually good for your relationship.
只要你持積極態度去討論問題,并能得饒人處且饒人,實際上,分歧促進了關系和諧。
【知識點津】
issue 問題
be concerned about 關心
ignore 忽略
pop up 突然出現
normal 正常
from time to time 偶爾
as long as 只要
constructively 建設性地
compromise 妥協
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