禮節(jié)美語(yǔ) BE-256 Sensitivity Training—Money II

晚宴結(jié)束，Jason跟同事Harold一起往外走。Jason是從中國(guó)來(lái)的，對(duì)西方人交往時(shí)回避談錢的問(wèn)題感到不解，問(wèn)這樣做是不是為了不去刺激那些沒(méi)什么錢的人。Harold回答說(shuō)：

Harold: Yes, I think you hit the nail on the head. Also, I think many Westerners believe that if you're rich, you should be quiet about it. In fact, I believe many wealthy people in the West feel a little bit guilty.

J: Why would they feel guilty?

H: Because so many other people work very hard, but never become successful. When the wealthy turn on TV, they see so much pain and suffering... but their own lives are so comfortable.

J: Ah... I can understand that. If I were a wealthy person I think I'd feel the same way.

Harold說(shuō)Jason, you hit the nail on the head. 你說(shuō)得一點(diǎn)沒(méi)錯(cuò)。to hit the nail on the head 意思是一下子就說(shuō)到了點(diǎn)子上，還有兩種類似的說(shuō)法，一種是 you are right on. 另外一種說(shuō)法是 you are right on the money. 都是同樣的意思。Harold說(shuō)，因?yàn)槲鞣胶芏嗳瞬幌矚g炫富，有些人還會(huì)因?yàn)樽约禾绣X，而其他人生活貧苦而感到內(nèi)疚。Harold 說(shuō)：
H: It's interesting that some of the most successful entrepreneurs such as John D. Rockefeller and Bill Gates ended up setting up charity organizations and giving away a large portion of the money they made.

J: So you're saying that Bill Gates, for example, doesn't necessarily think he deserves all the money he made....he knows a part of it was luck, right?

H: Yeah. Bill Gates is a computer genius, but he was there at the right place and the right time.

J: That's a good attitude. It's good to remember that hard work and good luck often go hand-in-hand. Okay, so one more time... what's the etiquette when it comes to talking about money with Westerners?

Harold說(shuō)，這也就是為什么比爾.蓋茨和洛克菲勒這種成功的企業(yè)家最后都會(huì) end up setting up charity organizations 成立慈善機(jī)構(gòu)，把錢捐出去。雖說(shuō)比爾.蓋茨是電腦天才，但他的成功在很大程度上也是靠機(jī)遇，He was there at the right place and the right time. 他在正確的時(shí)間出現(xiàn)在了正確的地方，類似中文里說(shuō)的天時(shí)地利人和。Jason很欣賞這種心態(tài)，因?yàn)?hard work and good luck often go hand-in-hand. 勤奮和運(yùn)氣二者往往必須兼?zhèn)洳拍艹晒Α?/p>

H: If the person doesn't volunteer information about how much something costs...don't bring it up. Don't ask about personal savings or salary.

J: Is it OK to comment on or praise someone's possessions? If you have a really nice car, can I say, "Wow...nice car?"

H: Yes, that's fine. It only gets complicated when you start talking about specific prices.

J: I see your point. Topics like that could lead to embarrassment.

H: Exactly. Maybe Mr. Jones' apartment was really expensive, but his company paid for it...or maybe he overpaid and got a bad deal...in either case, it's easier for everyone if we don't discuss it in public.

Harold最后總結(jié)說(shuō)，在西方，除非別人主動(dòng)告訴你，否則不要問(wèn)人家賺多少工資，有多少存款，買東西花了多少錢這類問(wèn)題，可以夸別人的東西好，但不要詢問(wèn)價(jià)錢，免得彼此尷尬。

A: Hard work and good luck often go hand-in-hand. 聽(tīng)見(jiàn)沒(méi)有，要成功，勤奮和運(yùn)氣缺一不可呀！

B: Yeah, you are already lucky enough to host the show with me, the only thing you need now is working hard!

A: 我了個(gè)去！你真是個(gè)臭美典型！（笑）好啦同學(xué)們，這次節(jié)目時(shí)間就到這里。