服務員解釋自己沒有粗魯無禮，看看我們是怎么“反擊”的：
客人A: It's your attitude. You're speaking to me in an impatient tone and I saw you roll your eyes at me. Is that not rude?
是你的態度。是你用不耐煩的語氣對我說話，我還看見你對我翻白眼了。這還不粗魯嗎？
服務員B: I wasn't aware that I sounded like that.
我沒意識到聽起來是那樣的。
第二輪：指出對方的態度問題
雖然對方沒有說難聽的話，但是態度不好，也讓人很不舒服。
It's your attitude
是你的態度
如何在口語中應用：
① It's your attitude. That's why no one wants to work with you. You're too negative.
是你的態度。那就是為什么沒人愿意和一起工作。你太負面了。
② It's your attitude I don't like. Quit complaining and get back to work.
我不喜歡的是你的態度。別再抱怨了，回去工作吧。

說到對方態度不好，我們還可以具體指出，到底有哪些無禮之處：
Speak to someone in an impatient tone
用不耐煩的語氣和別人說話
口語中的舉例：
① Don't speak to me in an impatient tone. You're not my boss.
別用不耐煩的語氣和我說話。你不是我老板。
② The waiter spoke to her in an impatient tone. He was rushing her to order.
那個服務員用很不耐煩的語氣和她說話。他在催她點菜。
還有一個非常明顯不禮貌的舉動：
Roll one's eyes at…
對某人翻白眼
口語中的舉例：
① I saw that. Don't roll your eyes at me.
我看見了。別對我翻白眼。
② She rolls her eyes at everyone when she hears something she doesn't like.
當她聽到什么她不喜歡的事情時，她就會對所有人翻白眼。