和中國男生交往、和美國男生交往是完全不同的體驗。具體不同在哪兒？聽我們細細道來。

關鍵詞：

美國男人不會給你拎包：
Handbag, purse: 女士包
American women won't ask their boyfriends or husbands to carry their handbags:美國女生不會讓男朋友、老公拎包
American guys will help you with your luggage or heavy bags, but not your purse:美國男人會幫你拎行李或重的東西，但不會幫你拎包
American men find it shocking that Chinese men carry their girlfriend's handbags: 中國男人如此體貼拎包，美國男人表示很震驚！
“You're cute enough. I'll hold your purse”: 好吧，誰叫你那么可愛。我幫你拎包吧
Act cutesy: 發嗲、撒嬌
Chinese women use carrying handbag as a test to see if their boyfriends care about them: 中國女生把拎包看成男友是否愛自己的測試

美國男人打死都不說“我愛你"：
You date someone in order to find out whether you love them or not: 談了戀愛，才知道你愛不愛那個人
You don't date someone because you love them: 不是因為你愛一個人，才談戀愛
American men have different definition of love and dating: 美國男人對愛、對戀愛的詮釋跟我們不同
Going on dates doesn't have to be exclusive: 談戀愛不一定是一對一、專屬的
It's only exclusive after the two of you have made the decision to do so: 雙方都同意、才開始專屬的關系
"I love you" comes much later: 所以美國人說“我愛你”通常比較晚

美國男人不會管你，但你也別想管他：
Personal space: 個人空間
Privacy: 隱私
Check on each other's privacy: 互查隱私、互相管
Check your cellphone: 看你的手機
Dating doesn't mean I have the right to know the details of your life: 雖然我們在談戀愛，但不代表我們有權利了解彼此生活的細節

美國男人不會哄你：
Coddle: 哄、溺愛
Whether emotionally or financially: 不論精神上或金錢上
Foot the bill: 買單
Maybe it's because American women don't like to be coddled：可能因為美國女生不愛撒嬌
So American men don't have the skills to coddle women: 所以美國男人沒有哄女人的意識