
3. Be appreciative. 欣賞
You can never appreciate your spouse too much. He or she needs tohear how much you admire the way he or shegets the bills paid, organizes the kids' activities, made thattasty shrimp scampi last night, rewired thebasement, cleared out three months' worth of old magazines frombeside thecouch, or got the trash out to the curb just in time forpickup.
再怎么稱贊你的愛人都不為過。當(dāng)他(她)把賬單付清,當(dāng)他(她)組織了一場(chǎng)孩子的活動(dòng),當(dāng)他(她)做完烹制出美味的奶油蒜味蝦,或者當(dāng)他(她)把地下室的電線重新接好,當(dāng)他(她)把沙發(fā)旁積累了三個(gè)月的舊雜志清理干凈,當(dāng)他(她)出門倒垃圾正好趕上垃圾車的時(shí)候,愛人都需要聽到你的贊美之詞。