對這種人你除了學會和其接觸無計可施,同時你也要學會擇友,選擇那些對你友善的,那些真正關心你的,那些令你對自己感到很好的人做朋友。當你尋找到像這樣的朋友,就一定要堅守這份友誼,珍惜他們,花些時間和他們在一起,友善的對待他們并愛他們。
There's not much you can do about these people except to learn to deal with them, and learn to choose friends who are kind to you, who actually care about you, who make you feel good about yourself. When you find friends like this, hold on to them, treasure them, spend time with them, be kind to them, love them.
有時你會遭遇挫折而非成功。生活并不總會如你所愿。這是另一件你需要學會處理的事情。但你要挺住向前,而不是讓這些事讓你陷入低谷。接受挫敗并學會堅持,不畏風險地追求你的夢想。學會把消極轉化為積極,之后你就能做的好得多。
There will be times when you are met with disappointment instead of success. Life won't always turn out the way you want. This is just another thing you'll have to learn to deal with. But instead of letting these things get you down, push on. Accept disappointment and learn to persevere, to pursue your dreams despite pitfalls. Learn to turn negatives into positives, and you'll do much better in life.
你同樣會面臨心碎時刻以及你深愛的人的拋棄。我希望你無須經歷太多此類事件,但如果不幸發生了,再一次,除了慢慢愈合心中的創傷并繼續下去你的生活,你別無選擇。讓這些痛苦成為你通向更美好生活的墊腳石,并學會利用它們讓自己更堅強。
You will also face heartbreak and abandonment by those you love. I hope you don't have to face this too much, but it happens. Again, not much you can do but to heal, and to move on with your life. Let these pains become stepping stones to better things in life, and learn to use them to make you stronger.
但無論如何,都要張開雙臂擁抱生活 But Be Open to life Anyway
是的,在你的生命歷程中你會遇到殘酷,煎熬……但不要讓這些讓你拒絕接受新鮮事物。不要逃避生活,不要躲藏,抑或封閉自己。擁抱新鮮事物,經歷全新體驗,接觸新的人。
Yes, you'll find cruelty and suffering in your journey through life … but don't let that close you to new things. Don't retreat from life, don't hide or wall yourself off. Be open to new things, new experiences, new people.
你或許心碎了10次,但是在第十一次找到至愛。如果你把自己關在愛的門外,你就會錯過這個女子,和你生命中最快樂的時光。
You might get your heart broken 10 times, but find the most wonderful woman the 11th time. If you shut yourself off from love, you'll miss out on that woman, and the happiest times of your life.
你可能會被你遇到的人恥笑欺負傷害…而在見了一打這種稀奇古怪的人后,你會找到一個真正的朋友。如果你拒絕接觸新人群,并不向他們敞開心扉,你會避免受傷……但是同時也失去了認識這些不可思議的人的機會,他們會在你生命最困難的時刻陪伴著你,并帶給你人生當中最美好的時光。
You might get teased and bullied and hurt by people you meet … and then after meeting dozens of jerks, find a true friend. If you close yourself off to new people, and don't open your heart to them, you'll avoid pain … but also lose out on meeting some incredible people, who will be there during the toughest times of your life and create some of the best times of your life.