In fact that is what life is like:
事實上這就是生活:
We are often faced with the two opposing sides of a thing which are both desirable.
我們經常面臨正反都可取的一件事,
Just like newspaper cutting,
就像剪報,
it often occurs that our attention is drawn to one thing only after we are engaged in another.
我們忙碌于這件事的時候,注意力卻又被另一件事所吸引。
The former may be more important than the latter and can give rise to a divided mind.
可前者或許比后者更重要,我們舉棋不定。
However, I remember a philosopher’s words:
然而,我仍然記得一位哲學家的話:“
"When one door closes, another one opens."
當一扇門關閉時,另一扇門會開啟。”
So a casual or passive choice may not always be a bad one.
所以不經意或被動選擇,或許并不是壞事。