We all would like to be trusted by our parents,
我們都希望得到父母的信任,
because each of us wants to get more freedom.
因?yàn)槲覀兠總€(gè)人都想獲得更多的自由。
But parents are more likely to give us freedom if we show them that they can trust us.
但如果我們向父母表明他們可以信任我們,那么他們就更有可能給我們自由。
So let our parents know
所以讓父母知道
what's going on at school and with our friends.
我們?cè)趯W(xué)校發(fā)生了什么,并了解我們的朋友
Keep our bedroom door open when we are at home.
在家的時(shí)候,開(kāi)著臥室門(mén)。
If we can be truly trusted,
如果我們能得到真正的信任,
then we have nothing to hide, right?
那我們就沒(méi)什么好隱瞞的了,對(duì)吧?
Most parents will trust us more for coming to them and telling them about ourselves.
大多數(shù)父母會(huì)因我們?nèi)フ宜麄冎v自己的事而更加信任我們。
Trust can't be built in a day or even a week,
信任不是一天或一周就能建立起來(lái)的,
but we can gradually do things to help our parents build their trust in us.
但是我們可以逐漸做一些事情來(lái)幫助父母建立他們對(duì)我們的信任。