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The fallout was fast in coming.
這件事的附帶影響很快就出現(xiàn)了。
On the one side I had people, mostly women,
一方面，一些人，多數(shù)是女性，
who were furious with me for destroying their dream of having it all, for setting back the cause of feminism.
對(duì)我相當(dāng)憤怒，說(shuō)我完全毀了他們的夢(mèng)想，讓女權(quán)事業(yè)倒退。
On the other side were those who called me brave for taking a stand for motherhood.
另一方面，有些人夸我勇敢地站在了母性的立場(chǎng)上。
In fact neither entered into my thinking when I quit.
實(shí)際上，我辭職的時(shí)候壓根兒就沒(méi)想過(guò)以上的任何一個(gè)方面。
I left because it was the right decision for me, and me alone.
我離開(kāi)，是因?yàn)檫@個(gè)決定對(duì)我而言是對(duì)的，而且是僅對(duì)我而言。
There's a reason I've always loved Robert Frost's poem The Road Not Taken, because I think he was on to something.
我一直都很喜歡羅伯特·弗羅斯特的那首詩(shī)--《未選擇的路》，這是有原因的，因?yàn)槲艺J(rèn)為他說(shuō)出了些道理。
Following the road less travelled really does mean making all the difference.
走那條少有人走的路，確實(shí)意味著一切將有所不同。
Heck, I'm still forging my own way, trying to balance work and family.
可不是嗎，直到現(xiàn)在我仍在開(kāi)拓我自己的路，試圖在工作和家庭之間求得平衡。
Throughout your life you will have to set your own priorities, make your own decisions.
在一生當(dāng)中，你必須要找到優(yōu)先次序，自己做決定。
And they won't always be the best or the brightest ones,
這些決定不會(huì)總是最好的或最明智的，
but that's how you learn and come to understand who you really are and what matters to you.
但卻是你學(xué)習(xí)并了解自己究竟是誰(shuí)、什么對(duì)自己最重要的過(guò)程。
Tell me... I... I have to tell you, I have known plenty of people who have sacrificed their values for instant gratification.
我不得不說(shuō)，我知道有很多人為著一時(shí)的滿足而犧牲了自己的價(jià)值觀。
Do that enough, and you'll lose yourself.
這樣做多了，你將失去自我。
Only authenticity will keep your head on straight and your feet firmly planted.
只有真實(shí)的自己才能讓你正視前方、腳踏實(shí)地。
So don't strive for somebody else's notion of perfection.
所以，不要追求別人眼里的完美。
It's an unattainable and ultimately ridiculous goal.
那種目標(biāo)難以實(shí)現(xiàn)，最終也會(huì)變得很可笑。
Strive instead to be uniquely yourself.
相反，要努力成為獨(dú)一無(wú)二的自己。
And, when in doubt, listen to your gut, because it already knows what you want to become.
陷入疑惑時(shí)，要傾聽(tīng)自己的內(nèi)心，因?yàn)槟愕膬?nèi)心早已知道你想成為什么樣的人。
