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And again, don't get me wrong, I'm very grateful to my mom. I literally had 24/7 Marva Collins in my house.
再一次，別誤解我，我非常感激我媽媽。簡直就像是全天候的駐家瑪瓦·柯林斯
I owe so much to my mom. However, in this case, it probably was not the realistic belief.
我是那么地感激我媽媽，但是，這一次，這可能不是現實的信念
So what is realistic? How do we identify what is realistic and what is not?
那么什么是現實的？我們如何區分什么是現實的，什么不是？
Here are some ideas to help us do so.
下面是一些對我們有幫助的想法
The Stockdale paradox.
斯托克代爾悖論
It's about finding the tension, reconciling the tension and it's not easy.
它認為要找出矛盾，讓矛盾化解，這并不容易
Again, I'm not going to give you a formula now to tell you:
我不會給你們一個公式，告訴你們:
OK, here is... calculate this, and if it's above seven, go ahead with green; below seven, probably not so.
好吧，就這樣……算這個，如果是大于7的就沒有問題，低于7的，可能就不是這樣
There is no formula. But here is, just a heuristic, something to think about when you think about beliefs.
不存在什么公式，但是，僅作為一個啟發式，當你思考信念時，存在一些需要思考的東西
James Stockdale was admiral. James Stockdale was the highest ranking prisoner of war in the... in the Vietnam War.
詹姆斯·斯托克代爾是名海軍上將，他是越南戰爭被俘人員里級別最高的戰俘
And he started to notice a phenomenon. He was there for years.
他開始注意到一個現象，他在那關了很多年
Eventually got out and live to tell the tale many others did not.
最終被釋放并得以活著向人們講述往事，而其他許多戰俘沒能做到
And he saw many people survive, many people not survive.
他看到許多人幸存，許多人死亡
The very harsh conditions of the prisoner. and what he was that the people who survived had two characteristics.
戰俘的生存條件非常惡劣，他發現那些活下來的人有兩個特點
