He's not like the rest of us.
他不像我們其他人
I don't think my dad ever took anybody for granted,
我不認為我的父親把別人看得很重
but you are a little bit blind, I think,
但你有時可能看不到
sometimes to what other people might be doing behind the scenes,
有些時候其他人在幕后做些事情
and my dad's gotten a little bit of a pass.
我父親可能視而不見
Warren can't find the light switch,and it's probably my fault.
沃倫找不到燈開關 這可能是我的錯
One time, years ago when the kids were little,
有一次 幾十年前 孩子們還小
I was feeling really sick.I had the flu,
我感覺不舒服 我感冒了
so I lay down on the bed,and I said to Warren,
我躺在床上 和沃倫說
"Will you get me a pan? Or something from the kitchen.
能給我拿個盤子嗎 或者是廚房的
I may not get to the bathroom.I feel so sick."
我可能不能去浴室了 我感覺不舒服
He said, "Okay." So he trottles down to the kitchen,and I hear this bang,bip, boom, bang!
他說 好 就下樓去廚房了 我就聽到了叮叮咣咣的聲音
And he comes up, and he brings me a colander.
然后他來了 給我拿了個濾鍋
I looked at it, and I said,"Look, honey, this has holes in it."
我看著濾鍋 說 親愛的 這個有洞
"Oh, oh, okay." So he ran down,all this banging and everything.
哦 哦 好的 他就跑下去了 然后又是叮叮咣咣
And he comes up and he puts the colander on a cookie sheet.
出現時吧濾鍋放在了烤盤上
Physical proximity to Warren doesn't always mean that he's there with you.
身體上的接近并不意味著他和你在一起
He's so cerebral, you see?
他非常清醒 你發現了嗎
That's why I learned to have my own life.
那就是為什么要學著要有自己的生活
We were two parallel lines and but very connected when he was open to connecting.
我們是兩條平行線 但是他開放時我們是相連的