講解
Today’s key word is decide.
decide d-e-c-i-d-e
決定 決心

If you decide to do something, you choose to do it, usually after you think about the other possibilities.

Here is an example:
We decided to have a show called Ayoenglish last year!
我們去年決定做一檔節目叫做A-yo English.

We all have to make lots of decisions every day.

For example, when to get up; what to eat for breakfast; and should I go to the gym?
這些決定有的簡單有的難，今天我們要說的決定，是一個非常難的決定。也是非常重要的決定。

So how do you know when you are with the right person?

You're supposed to just KNOW it.
But...how do you know?

I think it's true that to some degree, you will just know. You will know because you can feel it.

But still there are some signs that can help you confirm that you are with the right person.

There isn't a for-sure thing.
But these can definitely help you make a conclusion(結論).

Here are 10 signs that you are with the right person.

1. You spend time together doing things you both enjoy.

聽說過很多的人會為了自己的另一半兒選擇自己不太喜歡的活動。
But when you are with the right person, you are able to do things together and actually like what you're doing.

兩個對的人在一起，一定會有共同的興趣。任何一個人單方面的犧牲都是不健康的。
You are not able to like every single thing your partner likes, but for all of your hobbies there should be more similarities than differences.

2. You are able to spend time apart.

再相愛的兩個人也不可能每時每刻都黏在一起。學會留下適當的空間也很重要。

There's no harm in seeing what your partner is up to, but that doesn't mean watching their every step and asking them where they are, who they're with, where they're going next, and when they'll be back.

Enjoy your time apart as much as you can enjoy your time together. It's called balance.

3. You want to be together.

如果你不想和這個人呆在一個空間里 then why are you with them in the first place?

You should be looking forward to seeing them.
There are times when you won't be able to see them for a while or for a certain long period of time.

It's still important that when you finally get the chance to see each other, you want to.

4. You can maintain your own identity.

When you are in a relationship, it doesn't mean that you need to change who you are for them.
適當的妥協可以理解，但一段愛情并不需要任何一方改變自己的所有。

如果他總是要求你改變，甚至要求你放棄喜歡的東西，那請問他愛的是你？還是他想象中的人？

Like the things you liked before, laugh at the same kind of jokes.
Maybe you prefer to stay at home and read a book, or maybe you like going out as well.

Whatever makes you you... don't lose it.

5. You don't argue to win but to try and solve problems.


爭論吵架在所難免，但爭論的目的是為了解決問題不是無理取鬧。

When people argue, their original goal is to reach an agreement.
Don't let your arguments turn into fights where someone has to win.

下期節目中呢我們一起來聊聊后面五個標志，如果你有什么更好的看法留言告訴我們吧。

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