One question Yes On having a conversation
我有一個(gè)問題請講關(guān)于談話方面
I know it would just normal interpersonal interactional, clarifying questions active listening, that's a big deal
我知道它們僅僅是常規(guī)的人際交流相互交流,闡述問題主動傾聽,這很重要
Oh yeah Do you want to, either's want to poison an interview do you want to reset, retrace question
沒錯(cuò)需不需要在你回答問題之前為了不破壞談話
and see if you understand it right before you answered it or you just plugging
而復(fù)述問題嗎以確認(rèn)你是否理解了問題或者是你直接回答
If you are confused, I would only ask them for a couple reasons
如果你有疑問,我將只會因以下幾個(gè)原因而重新問他們
one, if they are really unclear and you actually need it or, if it's a doll good question you are trying to think of the answer
第一,問題確實(shí)不清楚而你需要弄明白問題是什么或者這個(gè)問題相當(dāng)好你需要時(shí)間來想想答案
So if they ask you something like What was the your most memorable moments in your college?
所以如果他們問你大學(xué)期間最難忘的時(shí)刻是
And you are like Crap, I don't think that ever and you say well you can rephrase that, wow, it's really good question
而你呢噢,我從未想過這個(gè)所以你可以說你可以復(fù)述說,噢 這是個(gè)精彩的問題
so, the most memorable moment in my college You give you a little bite a little bit time to think
在我大學(xué)期間最難忘的瞬間是...... 你為自己爭取了一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)思考的時(shí)間
so use the bite time or if they were just really unclear
所以要么是為了爭取思考的時(shí)間要么是問題確實(shí)不清楚
That would probably happen while from hiring managers depending with the (INAUDIBLE)
在面對招聘經(jīng)理的時(shí)候可能會出現(xiàn)這種問題取決于(聽不清)
That recruiters are usually trained and they are hired to be the personals You may have a hired manager who is not as inter-personal
招聘專員通常是經(jīng)過訓(xùn)練的專門從事與人交流的活動而招聘經(jīng)理則可能不是
so feel free use that only if you only could you do, by sometime good question though, Gab
那么善于人際交流所以在必要的時(shí)候還是應(yīng)該大膽地這么做這個(gè)問題不錯(cuò),蓋博
You shooting gun at me today all you guys are
你今天向我提了不少問題大家都是
So we are gonna close that soon it's 8 o clock right now
那么我們就準(zhǔn)備結(jié)束了時(shí)間過得很快,現(xiàn)在已經(jīng)8點(diǎn)了
last thing I'll say close strongly, make sure leave all your cards on the table at the end of the people would say is there anything else we should know?
我要講的最后一點(diǎn)是要有力地收尾,確認(rèn)你的卡片全部放在桌上最后人們會問還有什么我們應(yīng)該知道的東西嗎
And make that your opportunity to say well, based on what I've learnt so far and this this and this
你應(yīng)該抓住機(jī)會說根據(jù)我目前所知的情況這個(gè)這個(gè)和這個(gè)
I think it would be great position let them know you love this job just like a spouse speak to different other they want hear I love you
我想這個(gè)職位對我來說是很好的讓他們知道你熱愛這個(gè)工作就像一對夫婦互相說的那樣他們想聽到的是,我愛你